| re: It's tragic he died, but the real sad thing about all of this... |
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Pudding 05:29 am UTC 01/24/08 |
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re: It's tragic he died, but the real sad thing about all of this... - Julianna 05:10 am UTC 01/24/08 |
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A child knows what a child is told. If the child is constantly reminded about their father and he's not around, then obviously questions are going to be asked by the child about where he is and who's fault it is he's not there. I'm not saying that the childs father should be forgotten, but I don't think a childs mind should be fucked around with constant reminders, especially with things that they have absolutely no comprehension of fully understanding.
> I truly hope you are right, but...my 4 1/2 yr old niece
> lost her father when she was 2, and she still asks me if
> her Daddy "went away" because she was "bad". No amount of
> denials/reassurances has changed this to date...it breaks
> my heart. Every child is different, and I pray that his
> daughter does better.
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