> My question is simple. If you had a girlfriend or even a
> wife, and you masturbated to porn, does that mean you love
> your significant other any less?
If you repeatedly do something you know she hates you doing, and you know she feels horrible and unloved about you doing, that's not a good way to show your love for her. That's going to be what makes her believe you love her less.
Is it a case of she doesn't like you masturbating, or that she doesn't like you masturbating while thinking about someone else? 'Cos you could get her to do something on camera that you could masturbate to... then everybody's happy.
Me personally? I let him wank to porn. There's hardly any porn I actually find stimulating... only obscure stuff with a backplot, haha. Otherwise it's like being at the zoo and watching monkeys having sex; it does nothing, they're just animals... but it works for him, and I have no problem with him masturbating to that... apart from what he sometimes thinks he's "learnt" from watching... porn should never be used as educational material, it uses a lot of "special effects" and is mostly done for the camera rather than for pleasure...
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