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re: Mastubation debate

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LordRahl 03:08 pm UTC 05/22/07
In reply to: re: Mastubation debate - pidunk 12:53 pm UTC 05/22/07

Susan,

When I look at the things you are saying from my girlfriends perspective I can understand what you are getting at. But these views are the ones I am trying to convince her are not true for me, as they may be for other guys. Now the following is going to be perssonal and hopefully no one will laugh tooooo much, ;- )

For me, as a person with a foot fetish, porno can be as simple as two fully clothed girls taking off each others shoes and socks and licking each others feet. For most people that doesn't even constitute as pornography, just weird.

Now obviously it gets me off, so there is the issue that I am enjoying other girls. But in no way do I love these women, hell often times I look at ones that remind me of my girlfriend so that I can more easily visualize her instead of them. When I masturbate it is for a special kind of release that I can only get from myself. In no way could I ever get it from another girl, and it isnt something better, so dont assume I mean that. It is just something different that sometimes I like to experience now and again.

Sex with her is still the most special way to experience orgasm for me. Sex with her is still the best feeling. And for me porn is as harmless as watchin a movie or playing a video game. It is only passionate while it is going on, then as soon as I finish it is insignificant and completly out of my mind. I could masturbate one minute, and the next sit back and do homework or study.

I know it is difficult for someone to see my perspective and actually understand it, you seem to say alot of the same things Erin does as well and she is more stubborn than anyone I have ever met. But hopefully my piece here put into words some more of the things I have been leaving out.


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